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BIRTH MOTHER RAJDULARI
INDIA AMBALA 1970
NORTH CURCH OF AMBALA
AT
PHILADELHPIA MISSONARY HOSPITAL
Im searching for my birth mother in india Ambala.
I was born 1970, by an woman named Rajdulari, as it is to read in my documents, Rajdulari gave birth to me in India, Ambala, In charge for my adoption at the time was
Super medcial indentent MR Raj Sukhnandan 1970-1972, At a missionary hosptital, north curch of Ambala Philadhelpia hosptital, at the time in june 1972, i was adopted to Sweden.
Dont know if this imformation are true but, this is what i have read, and been told.
In the documents says that
The woman Rajdulari was an north aryan woman, poor, teenaged woman and unmarried at the time, and she was unabel to maintain the child, and beacuse of her ages at the time, she was not aloud to sign the papers, and it might have been some hesitation (as i been told later)abt giving away the child for adoption, but in those days, and in that situation,
im' i not convinced by that theory, adoption might just been one of the alternatives, but to keep the baby, i guess was never an possibilti,,
There is to read about the grandfahter-the father, by a name Fakyir Chand something,, who seemed to be the one that made the majority decision, and also seemed by the story, the one that was the determinging part, of the situation,
I was given as the paper said, the name Rajdulari lata, a common choice, in adoption cases,, they let you or give you, the same name as a birth part, the reason for that could be many, also, that is not 100% for sure, that if someone is up for adoption, they always as a "rule" give the baby the mother or the fathers name,,
At the church hospital, they called me Mary,,,
If anyone have any iformation about this, or know how i could find a way to search futher information, please do send me information.
My adoption is not an agency adoption,that was a private case in between my Swedish parents, and this Doctor Raj sukhnandan, but it was a leagal adoption with all its procedure, and some court proceedings, abt a few at the time, factuale xplaintations, that needed to clear for the succed og the adoption, but it took almost 2 years for the adoption to be in its complete case, one delay abt the court, was the war between india-Paktistan that broke out at the time,,
I know that its is not easy, and it might even be imp to find anything, or even IF theres is something, or somebody that knows, or might even be the person im looking for, out there,,
That dosen't says that, it will be for me, to be abel to open the "story" abt my past,, situation, time, and forever confidentiality, are just some of the reasons why it might forever be a gone,,
So even, the possb that IF theres is someone related out there, and regardless of the IF,, menaning, theres is a diffrence in wanting to know, see, meet, find out about,, and the fact of what is really possib. and not do anything that might harm anyone,,,by open the past,
Of all respect, and good will, heart, i dont want to go where, this search could end up hurting or make any kind of problems for any part!
It would mean indiscrable feeling to fins anything,
!!!!!!BUT ONLY!!!!!
If it for sure, would be a pleasant and harmfull situation,,
Time will show
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